7 Reasons Why Manifesting is NOT Working For You
You want to manifest all that stuff you desire, and everyone around you seems to be successful and understands how to make the Law of Attraction work. But no matter how hard you try, it just isn't working for you. Is it you? Does the universe not like you and is purposely making sure you don't receive what you want?
BY MIA FOX
AUTHOR, MONEY MINDSET & MANIFESTATION COACH
If you are asking yourself often: Why is manifesting not working for me? You might get frustrated after a while. I get that. It is easy to take things personally when the law of attraction is not working the way we want. If you're wondering why manifesting is not working for you, this post is for you.
Learn here the top reasons why manifesting is not working for you. And how to fix them!
You Haven't Worked Through Your Manifesting Blocks
If you're wondering why manifestation works for some people, but you're having trouble, maybe you still have some abundance blocks to work on.
Any underlying limiting beliefs will keep you in place, with little progress.
You do not need to be 100% perfect in your thinking. However, you do need to believe, on a subconscious level that you deserve what you want.
You need to be confident and open to receiving it.
If you're stuck in an old familiar limiting pattern, then you need to address it before your energy can align with what you desire. Journaling or meditation are both great tools for self-reflection, that will help you to identify your blocks.
You Try to Manifest Against Someone's Will
If manifesting a specific person to do something (like calling you, or asking you for a date) is not working, then you may be missing the point of attraction. If a particular person wants the same things that you want, then you will naturally attract them.
But, consider this. If you are trying to manifest a specific person against their will, you are broadcasting the frequency of lack.
If your mindset blossomed with abundance, you would not need to attract a particular person because there are plenty of options that will be perfect for you.
Instead of putting all of your focus on a single person, focus on the feelings and the attributes you're hoping to manifest. You may find out that the person you're trying to manifest was never the right one in the first place, and you are attracting a person WAY better for you.
You Are Not Setting the Right Kind of Goals
You may have been asking the divine energy for the things you want most. Usually, this is in the form of goals. But merely writing your goals down on a piece of paper and forgetting about them is not going to get you very far.
To make your manifestation work, you need to set the right types of goals.
There are three types of goals that will help you manifest your dream life. They are breakthrough goals, result goals, and process goals.
Breakthrough goals are BIG. They are inspiring and kick your butt out of bed in the morning. They should be so exciting and enticing that you can't wait to get to work in the morning.
With breakthrough goals, you are trying to create a vastly better life for yourself, and you should set them to inspire you, and you need to believe you can achieve them.
Result goals are a little more specific. Where a breakthrough goal is lofty and vague, for example: attract the partner of my dreams, a results goal would look something like: "I want to be in the perfect place emotionally, physically, and spiritually by this day next year so I can be the perfect partner for my dream person."
They are more specific and give you an actual timeline to work with.
Process goals are the daily action steps you will take. What habits will you take on every day that are going to turn you into the perfect partner for someone? Process goals will look a lot like a daily to-do list where you can feel yourself progressing and achieving.
Set these types of goals, and you will have a much better chance of manifesting everything you want.
I teach how to set these goals in my transformational goal setting workbook and goals planner, and you can grab it today for only $27.
Goal-setting can be overwhelming, in the beginning. I get that. So if you need a little bit hand-holding with your goal setting, this workbook is right for you. And it comes with a planner that will help you to put your goals into action.
You Are Impatient
Are you trying to force something to manifest in your life?
Remember, whatever frequency you're vibrating on is the frequency you're attracting.
If you're impatient, it signifies that you need something. When you need something, you are in lack. Get out of scarcity and trust the process.
The universe loves to do things quickly and with less resistance. When you let go of your time constraints of impatience, it allows the naturally loving flow of energy to come to you.
Speed happens when it is natural. Not when it is forced.
Still, I can understand that you might get impatient with your manifestations, I'm a very impatient person myself. That's why I have a special treat for you, my best 10 tips to manifest faster.
Not Taking Action
Another reason why the law of attraction isn't working for you may be that you are focusing too much on merely believing and not on taking action.
We are taught that as long as you believe, then you will receive it. At least that's what books like The Secret are teaching us, right?
This is true if you're taking steps to achieve. Taking action IS receiving.
On top of believing, you must follow your inspired action and make progress when you come up with ideas to achieve your goals. Belief is the first part of the process that will change your vibration.
But when you start to take action, you will be in real life motion towards actualizing your desires.
That's why I teach in my manifesting book "Become the CEO of Your Dream Life" how to activate the universal law of action. I believe that this law is more powerful than the law of attraction itself, and it will make all the difference for your manifestation success.
I explain more about the law of action, and how to use it in your manifestation, in the first chapter of my book, and when you sign up here, I send it to you for free.
You're Not Using the Right Tools
Manifestation tools work wonders when you're using them correctly. Remember that the right tool for some people is not the right one for others.
One person may be best off using visualization instead of affirmations. Another person may benefit from both. The important thing is to try out the different law of attraction tools and figure out which ones cause your energy to change.
Between NLP, hypnosis, visualization, meditation, EFT, and affirmations, you should be able to find the right tools for you. When you find it, you'll feel the way you want to feel comfortable, and you'll see your inner life begin to change, prompting outer change.
About choosing the right manifesting tools, and how to use them properly, I talk a lot in my manifesting book.
You Don't Know How to Implement The Manifesting Steps Properly
If you follow the manifestation steps correctly, they will work. If you're going about them improperly, then you may be having a little bit of trouble.
Merely reading about the law of attraction will not make it work for you. You need to follow the steps to change your subconscious mind, set the right kind of goals, and take inspired action.
Practicing the law of attraction is an evolving endeavor. As you learn and work with it more and more, you will uncover nuances that you may not have fully understood before.
Do you feel that you need some more guidance to make manifesting working for you? Then you should read my book. This helped thousands of women, just like you.
And believe me when I tell you that I know exactly how you feel. Because I was once myself at this point and thought that manifesting is not working for me.
I almost gave up. And today I'm glad I didn't.
Author, Certified Transformational Trainer, NLP & Mindset Coach
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